Saturday, January 26, 2008

I'm just sayin'

I just have to say something. If I say enough is enough, if I warn you that you are pissing me off, I would advise you to accept the consequences if you continue to push.

Do not ever tell me to not let it bother me because in my mind that does not compute. If you are striking a nerve, one that is raw to begin with, I have no control over how I FEEL when you hit it.

You are the one person I expect to respect my feelings and my boundaries. Do you understand how that makes it worse if you are the one to hurt my feelings? And not listening to me hurts my feelings.

Normally you are so incredibly good at it. That probably makes it hurt more. I’m not used to feeling anything but good things for you and from you and I never expect to feel the need to end a conversation abruptly because you are ignoring what I have said.

It happens so rarely for us. Because we are wonderful together.


Yes, I love you. I have always loved you I always will. That doesn’t change.

I just need a minute, and you need a minute too. Figuratively speaking. I will soothe my raw nerve and you will lick your wounds.

It will all be fine.


PawHealer said...

Ouch Ouch Ouch....

I know that feeling, all too well.

MsCatCalls said...

Sounds like this was something that needed to be said . I hope youre ok , Im sure you are like you said , it will all be fine . But nasty whilst its all going on .... hope you slept .... ok .

Mahala said...

Deep cleansing breath....

BetteJo said...

It wasn't that bad, honestly. It's just so incredibly rare that I get angry with him.

useless_rambler said...

But good for you for knowing when to stop and to be able to actually say "stop!".

My problem is diarrhea of the mouth. When I get pissed, look out! I just purge and purge and purge until I've done way too much damage to fix. Thankfully, hubs is like you and knows when enough is enough. He'll say stop, and when I don't, he just shuts down and leaves me no other choice.

Oh, how that pisses me off in the heat of the moment, but later, when cooler heads eventually prevail, I'm oh-so-thankful that he has that ability.

Hope things are ok now :)