Thursday, September 18, 2008

Where's Emily Post when you need her? Or maybe the cops?


It's totally amazing to me which things my mind decides to totally drop. I forgot to mention this to ANYBODY. Yesterday I saw my BF at lunch. We had gone to a convenience store, parked, and he had gone inside. Sitting in the passenger seat I was just kind of staring into space until something on my right caught my eye.


There was a taxi parked there, right in the center in front of the doors which really isn't supposed to be a parking space. I wasn't sure what about this taxi caught my eye so I turned my head.

The door to the driver's side of the taxi was open and the driver was standing between the door and the inside of the car. He had a pack of cigarettes in his right hand and was smacking it against the palm of his left. He was an Asian man with a slight build, and he was looking straight ahead while he packed his cigarettes and peed.

Did you catch that? He was peeing! That's what caught my eye, the stream sparkling in the sunlight while it was bouncing off the pavement.

UGH!!!!!

I was so taken aback I looked away and doubted that's what I really saw for a second. It was bizarre, that's the only way I can describe it. We've all seen guys standing against a bush or a tree with his back to you and we know what he's doing. But generally they tend to go to a somewhat secluded spot, do their business and get on with it. But I have never seen a guy (we are discounting living in a college town where copious amounts of alcohol were involved) park in a highly trafficked area in broad daylight - whip it out and just pee - regardless of who was around, or who might see him!

He obviously was not aiming - in the traditional way - because his hands were in plain sight. How he was avoiding peeing on his legs and feet, not to mention his car, is beyond me. I would say this was something he was very practiced at and very comfortable with.

My BF came out of the store just as this guy was zipping up and getting back in his car. BF didn't notice anything, and I waited until the guy had gotten back in his car and pulled out of the parking lot before I said anything. To be honest, I was totally offended and was a tiny bit afraid of what the BF might do if the guy was still standing there with his willy out of his pants. BF is big. Peeing guy, very small.

I may be a conservative in some areas but I've never been a prude. But isn't there a certain amount of decorum that can be expected when you are out in public anymore? I mean, I know everybody pees, everybody has emergencies, but what about being a little discreet? Does this reflect a change in accepted behavior, or maybe it's a cultural thing? What do you think?

Because to me it was disgusting behavior and certainly disrespectful to anyone who was nearby, not to mention crude and just plain nasty. I'm sure the store wouldn't have wanted that to be happening right in front of their doors either, if the worker inside had noticed. But since it was about 12:30pm in the middle of a week day - he was pretty busy with customers.

So yeah, that slipped my mind yesterday but I'm curious. Am I overreacting or would you have found it bizarre and disgusting as well?

Just askin'.


8 Comments:

Stimey said...

I think it's good form to at least pretend to be discreet. I'd be annoyed too.

Diane of Crafty Passions said...

I would have been offended too.
I took my daughter to an outdoor cafe a few years ago and I happen to turn and saw a man with his zipper down having a pee on the sidewalk, I could tell he was a street person,I was mortified my daughter would see him I kept pointing the other way.So embarrassing... and this was downtown in a very busy city.
So Gross...
Diane

The Beading Gem said...

This post reminded me of urine detector signs in Singapore elevators! Really, they do exist. Singapore has a lot of wierd by- laws. You can see a couple of pictures of typical signs here -

http://www.lishenlee.com/Joomla/content/view/50/9/

http://everydaysingapore.blogspot.com/2007/09/if-only.html

The second one implies a camera is triggered when the detector senses pee on the floor. Now wouldn't that be a deterrent!

reddragonsangel said...

That's just nasty- I often see stuff that makees me wonder but that really is something - and I understand the fear of what BF would do- Big is well, big- lol and he would have said something ...but in todays world who knows what the pee-er would have done? Crazy

MsCatCalls said...

And ... if you were right outside a shop , wouldnt there be a bathroom ( restroom you call it I think ) in there if he just locked his car up for five minutes ?
In the UK you can get done for Indecent Exposure for that .... I expect its the same with you if the police walked by .
It happens here too though as you say mainly up a back alley when men have too much to drink . I have seen it in broad daylight and its always offensive I think . No need for it .

LadyBanana said...

It's definitely not nice at all and wouldn't it have been great if someone loud came along (maybe like you're noisy work colleague) and shamed him right there in the road!

PawHealer said...

Totally very gross...just like the guy that was jacking off when I was driving the dogs to the beach. Right when I was swinging around the corner, out comes his stuff.

Euwwwwwww

Day Dreamer said...

Oh YUCK! That's just...

I'm completely surprised that people can still shock me. But they can. I would have been angry. I'm not so sure I would have been so kind as to not alert BF, tho.

Huh's. I have a case of the huh's!!