tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3655693006167609215.post5054563447581848229..comments2024-02-14T09:55:04.542-06:00Comments on A Bead a Day: Is it wrong to be mean to my doctor?BetteJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11650981249204116251noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3655693006167609215.post-701035285003696392010-03-06T17:58:01.083-06:002010-03-06T17:58:01.083-06:00This doctor might be good at his job as far has te...This doctor might be good at his job as far has telling you what condition you have but it sounds like he has no bed side manner at all. It sounds like what you need is support, not that kind of attitude. I hope you think about trading him for one who can be gentler and more understanding...Someone well like Dr.OZ(wouldn't that be great LOL) <br />Seriously you deserve better! <br /><br />my 2 cents worth.<br />Thanks for stopping by!!sue zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02684324904673765842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3655693006167609215.post-29999073060683699922010-03-05T12:51:11.503-06:002010-03-05T12:51:11.503-06:00If you trust him as a doctor and want to keep him,...If you trust him as a doctor and want to keep him, then you need to let him know how his treatment of you made you feel. But unless you have some deep connection and trust with him, I say find another one. Also, when my dad was diagnosed with diabetes, he joined a support group and it made a huge difference in his outlook and attitude about it. That's been years and years ago - he's now 83 and going strong!Barbarahttp://barbarashallue.typepad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3655693006167609215.post-3412892769035248992010-03-03T09:56:54.021-06:002010-03-03T09:56:54.021-06:00Its horrible when you feel out of control,and that...Its horrible when you feel out of control,and that your doctor isnt helping . Maybe you need to tell him some of what you are feeling or nothing is going to change ? I usually try to list what I want to say or I forget when I get in the appointment room . But something has to shift , you dont want to go on feeling like this and you deserve more !MsCatMinderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07305103159809002521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3655693006167609215.post-76241696907934600612010-03-02T20:59:26.820-06:002010-03-02T20:59:26.820-06:00Don't get ME started BJ....I'm right there...Don't get ME started BJ....I'm right there with you.....Suggestion? Seriously, seek out an Acupuncturist...they are the care giver your looking for...they can help and it does work...I swear!<br /><br />We as a group are much more nurturing and we are all about helping people take steps...don't matter how big...and we really do help with the process of life style changes...You don't have to do this alone.<br /><br />HollyPawhealerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05757000954670070213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3655693006167609215.post-44977877469511492272010-03-02T13:15:56.695-06:002010-03-02T13:15:56.695-06:00I think "You suck" covers it nicely. He&...I think "You suck" covers it nicely. He'll know what you mean.JenKhttp://followingtheroad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3655693006167609215.post-91260590576677455702010-03-02T11:32:43.421-06:002010-03-02T11:32:43.421-06:00I once told a specialist what I thought of him, I ...I once told a specialist what I thought of him, I didn't mince words either, then I reported him to the hospital board, I was told he was having private problems at home.... I told them he was not very professional when it comes to treating patients.His office must have called me every day for a month afterwards to go for a follow up,do I look that stupid that I need to go back for more abuse?<br />He may have been a good doctor I dont know but he was sure a rude doctor, then I found out it wasen't just me but he had lots of complaints against him.They think they are God up on a pedestal, got news for you.... they put their pants on one leg at a time same as everyone else.<br />The very first thing he told me when I entered his office >> was to shut the damn door ,it wasen't a barn door , it was downhill after that !!!!!!<br />Tell him how he made you feel , no one needs to be made to feel small or badly at a doctor's office they are there to help you and you pay them to help you!!<br />DianeDiane at Crafty Passionshttp://dianobe.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3655693006167609215.post-49489611994361922902010-03-02T10:02:36.575-06:002010-03-02T10:02:36.575-06:00I'm sure he'll understand.I'm sure he'll understand.Teena in Torontohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14875608173791872449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3655693006167609215.post-67628048376445762032010-03-02T07:47:40.853-06:002010-03-02T07:47:40.853-06:00Well your Dr should try to help you understand the...Well your Dr should try to help you understand the problem and give you guidance. That is part of their job. But I guess sometimes they expect more from us. My Dr and I got ran into a problem over me taking meds for high cholesterol. I didn't like how they made me feel but he insisted that they were necessary. I managed to research and get it down with some very simple diet changes and a small amount of exercise. I couldn't resist telling him "I told you I didn't need that stuff" Take control and tell him what you want from him. (I was married to and asshole for 22 years, and that is the best way to deal with them.) Good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com